{"id":217,"date":"2009-09-04T20:19:28","date_gmt":"2009-09-05T04:19:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/chasingmolly.com\/blog\/?p=217"},"modified":"2011-01-16T16:21:00","modified_gmt":"2011-01-17T00:21:00","slug":"being-prepared-for-marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chasingmolly.com\/blog\/?p=217","title":{"rendered":"Being Prepared for Marriage"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I was getting my degree from BYU and visiting my family for the summer, when I ran into a good friend at a church dance. She looked great as always and we began talking. In the two years that I was attending BYU, she had\u00a0received certification from a trade school, began working and making decent money, bought a car and was about to purchase her first home. (All while she was single) Wow, I had no skills, had finally resorted to getting a loan because the job I had wasn&#8217;t enough to make ends meet and by the time I graduated, I would already be in debt with student loans. After college, I applied for jobs everywhere, and everyone seemed to be looking for more experience. Remembering my friend from the dance, I went to a trade school. Before I even received my certification, I had a job and\u00a0I was making more than I was working in my chosen field. It was easier to find a job and I only went to school for 8 months to become certified.\u00a0Even now, as a stay at home mom, I use my trade to earn extra money from home when I can. \u00a0I think if I could do it over again,\u00a0I would have gone to trade school first, earned my way through\u00a0BYU (Instead of getting a loan)\u00a0and provided for my future family the best possible start.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I was getting my degree from BYU and visiting my family for the summer, when I ran into a good friend at a church dance. She looked great as always and we began talking. In the two years that I was attending BYU, she had\u00a0received&nbsp;<a class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/chasingmolly.com\/blog\/?p=217\">&hellip;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[11],"tags":[52,50,51,39,38,54,55,53],"class_list":["post-217","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-thoughts-and-views-about-gospel-topics","tag-college-prep","tag-education","tag-higher-education","tag-lds-blog","tag-mormon-blog","tag-tech-school","tag-trade-school","tag-university"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p8Ddwu-3v","jetpack-related-posts":[],"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/chasingmolly.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/217","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/chasingmolly.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/chasingmolly.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chasingmolly.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chasingmolly.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=217"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/chasingmolly.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/217\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1133,"href":"https:\/\/chasingmolly.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/217\/revisions\/1133"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/chasingmolly.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=217"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chasingmolly.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=217"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chasingmolly.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=217"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}